Destiny...

When life puts you in tough situations, don't say why me. Have you ever heard of the Frederich Nietzsche concept of "Amor Fati"? It literally translates to "love of one's fate-destiny". It is the integral acceptance of the events or situations that occur in our lives including suffering and loss as an 'affirmation' of one's self, not only of our moments of joy and happiness but also of pain and suffering. It is the acceptance of our lives in entirety. It is all necessary to produce you as the individual as you truly are.