We are expected to have a happy outlook of life specially in the absence of major life dramas. Thankfully serious life changing dramas are uncommon. What's not so exceptional are the "mini dramas" that are ignored but gradually and subtly deliver an empty space for melancholy, anxiety and even depression in many lives. Unsolved small wounds or dramas have the potential to add up and provoke emotional instability with a negative impact in one's life.

The problem is not with you, but with what has happened to you over the years that took away an active part in your life.